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Post by Tom on Jul 30, 2014 14:26:25 GMT 1
It's always the same.   Florian asks something normal -> 2/3 users start sharing their opinion in an unfriendly way to him. Of course everyone is allowed to say what he thinks about it but why the fuck would you feel that quick offended if Florian just replies that he doesn't like it if people (who aren't even participating in this contest  I guess he wanted only the opinion of the participants but all right  ) are that unfriendly to him? I don't want to say much but I see some users are using Florian as laughingstock and to be honest that makes me sick. Isn't it possible to discuss normal things in a human way without saying "someone made you the most disappointed you ever got of him" or involving totally irrelevant subjects like Roblox (they were talking in my class about that when I was 12 years old ) in a discussion which is supposed to be more adult? It makes me think of my classmates. Someone says something normal and the others are going in a stupid way against him. I know this reaction wouldn't make any sense since everyone could protect himself with "but I was just giving my own opinion!!!" but I mean for Gods sake no one would react in that way if someone else would've asked this. If you're against the idea of a PQR I'm fine with it but if you're against the person who asks it, then that makes me pretty pissed off. If you don't like someone in this forums you should say it publicly like I said I never liked  Chris while everyone could read it - don't feel afraid to share your opinion about other people in public.   Now I would like to share my own opinion about the PQR-idea... to be honest I think it would only make more people fearful for being forced to withdraw. Personally I don't really mind the size of the semi finals (which I already mentioned before) and I just like it to estimate more songs. I think the size of the semi finals shouldn't matter as well in the North Vision Song Contest.  |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 30, 2014 14:33:42 GMT 1
involving totally irrelevant subjects like Roblox (they were talking in my class about that when I was 12 years old )  |
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Post by ESCIliasMANL (Inactive) on Jul 30, 2014 19:04:32 GMT 1
Non of the contest here are realism tge only one is Eurovision who bring us together |
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Post by ESCIliasMANL (Inactive) on Jul 30, 2014 19:11:04 GMT 1
It's always the same. Florian asks something normal -> 2/3 users start sharing their opinion in an unfriendly way to him. Of course everyone is allowed to say what he thinks about it but why the fuck would you feel that quick offended if Florian just replies that he doesn't like it if people (who aren't even participating in this contest I guess he wanted only the opinion of the participants but all right ) are that unfriendly to him? I don't want to say much but I see some users are using Florian as laughingstock and to be honest that makes me sick. Isn't it possible to discuss normal things in a human way without saying "someone made you the most disappointed you ever got of him" or involving totally irrelevant subjects like Roblox (they were talking in my class about that when I was 12 years old ) in a discussion which is supposed to be more adult? It makes me think of my classmates. Someone says something normal and the others are going in a stupid way against him. I know this reaction wouldn't make any sense since everyone could protect himself with "but I was just giving my own opinion!!!" but I mean for Gods sake no one would react in that way if someone else would've asked this. If you're against the idea of a PQR I'm fine with it but if you're against the person who asks it, then that makes me pretty pissed off. If you don't like someone in this forums you should say it publicly like I said I never liked Chris while everyone could read it - don't feel afraid to share your opinion about other people in public. Now I would like to share my own opinion about the PQR-idea... to be honest I think it would only make more people fearful for being forced to withdraw. Personally I don't really mind the size of the semi finals (which I already mentioned before) and I just like it to estimate more songs. I think the size of the semi finals shouldn't matter as well in the North Vision Song Contest. Thats what i wanted to say thank you so much Tom especially the part about people shouldnt be so affraid to say who they dont like in public like i said before that i dont like James. It makes much better so then there isnt that shit no one likes me comment! Maybe only dutch will understand that! I am also against pqr idea! |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 30, 2014 19:13:49 GMT 1
fabbiI left because my mind-set in my actual life is 1000% different than Florian's. I'm much older than most of you on the forum and at the time of deleting my account, it was 4:00am in Taiwan and I obviously was tired and not thinking properly.
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Post by Daniel on Jul 30, 2014 19:16:10 GMT 1
It's always the same. Florian asks something normal -> 2/3 users start sharing their opinion in an unfriendly way to him. Of course everyone is allowed to say what he thinks about it but why the fuck would you feel that quick offended if Florian just replies that he doesn't like it if people (who aren't even participating in this contest I guess he wanted only the opinion of the participants but all right ) are that unfriendly to him? I don't want to say much but I see some users are using Florian as laughingstock and to be honest that makes me sick. Isn't it possible to discuss normal things in a human way without saying "someone made you the most disappointed you ever got of him" Sorry, but you are totally wrong with this ^^ I did it in a normal way until Rani started to come up with things like I want him to leave FOR NO REASON. So please don't push this on my side because I WAS TRYING TO HELP HIM and I DID IT IN A NORMAL WAY. Even after the fight I continued to try to help. Just look at my posts. This post offended me actually more than the ones this morning. This place became a mess because you can't express your opinion. There will always be someone like Tom commenting on a fight and always supporting the weaker one no matter what opinion he has. Just because I have oh-so-many-likes and I am oh-so-famous on here according to some users doesn't mean that I can't stand up for my opinion. I am not different from everyone else but these people always claim that. And this doesn't only happen to me. And don't get this wrong Rani, we cleared this up. |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 30, 2014 19:25:54 GMT 1
It's always the same. Florian asks something normal -> 2/3 users start sharing their opinion in an unfriendly way to him. Of course everyone is allowed to say what he thinks about it but why the fuck would you feel that quick offended if Florian just replies that he doesn't like it if people (who aren't even participating in this contest I guess he wanted only the opinion of the participants but all right ) are that unfriendly to him? I don't want to say much but I see some users are using Florian as laughingstock and to be honest that makes me sick. Isn't it possible to discuss normal things in a human way without saying "someone made you the most disappointed you ever got of him" Sorry, but you are totally wrong with this ^^ I did it in a normal way until Rani started to come up with things like I want him to leave FOR NO REASON. So please don't push this on my side because I WAS TRYING TO HELP HIM and I DID IT IN A NORMAL WAY. Even after the fight I continued to try to help. Just look at my posts. This post offended me actually more than the ones this morning. This place became a mess because you can't express your opinion. There will always be someone like Tom commenting on a fight and always supporting the weaker one no matter what opinion he has. Just because I have oh-so-many-likes and I am oh-so-famous on here according to some users doesn't mean that I can't stand up for my opinion. I am not different from everyone else but these people always claim that. And this doesn't only happen to me. And don't get this wrong Rani, we cleared this up. No, I wouldn't get it wrong Why even should I For me - this topic is done |
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Post by Tom on Jul 30, 2014 20:14:12 GMT 1
It's always the same. Florian asks something normal -> 2/3 users start sharing their opinion in an unfriendly way to him. Of course everyone is allowed to say what he thinks about it but why the fuck would you feel that quick offended if Florian just replies that he doesn't like it if people (who aren't even participating in this contest I guess he wanted only the opinion of the participants but all right ) are that unfriendly to him? I don't want to say much but I see some users are using Florian as laughingstock and to be honest that makes me sick. Isn't it possible to discuss normal things in a human way without saying "someone made you the most disappointed you ever got of him" Sorry, but you are totally wrong with this ^^ I did it in a normal way until Rani started to come up with things like I want him to leave FOR NO REASON. So please don't push this on my side because I WAS TRYING TO HELP HIM and I DID IT IN A NORMAL WAY.Even after the fight I continued to try to help. Just look at my posts. This post offended me actually more than the ones this morning. This place became a mess because you can't express your opinion. There will always be someone like Tom commenting on a fight and always supporting the weaker one no matter what opinion he has. Just because I have oh-so-many-likes and I am oh-so-famous on here according to some users doesn't mean that I can't stand up for my opinion. I am not different from everyone else but these people always claim that. And this doesn't only happen to me. And don't get this wrong Rani, we cleared this up. No you weren't acting in a normal way.  I've marked a sentence in bold. Would you do the same if you were "trying to help" him if it was in real life? I (and I'm not the only one - I'm sure about that) read words in capital letters as screaming and in this case it seems pretty unfriendly and insulting to me. No matter how you bring your opinion - IT'S INSULTING TO WRITE LIKE THIS!!!!! (just an example, now you see it seems really stupid.) Maybe it's right that you felt offended by my post - then you could know how  Florian felt by your reactions. I could know how Florian feels after getting that many loads of negative reactions on a normal question because I've been trying often enough to be liked by that kind of people while they were only trying to make me down. And even if you like it to bring your own opinion in this way, it still seems to me that Florian wants to stay friends with you while you're just bringing your opinion in an absurd way (writing in capital letters is absurd). Actually I admit that I'm protecting Florian because I see he just accepts the rude comments here. How would you feel if you would've suggested the Pre-Qualify Round in the North Vision Song Contest and there were a lot of users the whole time writing stupid, unfriendly and sometimes off-topic comments? Would you feel pleased..? I'm sorry but I won't give a serious reaction to the "many likes & very famous"-part of your post. I hope you understand that's totally nonsense.  At least for me - I don't know about the other users on here. By the way, if you think my reaction was only for you then you're wrong; it was for you and  Dennis who I've seen both more often offending Florian. Why? Because he speaks the same language as you both? Because he's younger then you both? I don't know everyone personally on here but I don't tolerate bullying - that's it. |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 30, 2014 20:36:13 GMT 1
* has a comment on this but knows releasing would only make people angry *
#bullyingisnotsayingyouropinion
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Post by fabbi on Jul 30, 2014 20:37:18 GMT 1
#bullyingisnotsayingyouropinion No it isn't. But sometimes it's very similar. |
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I guess he wanted only the opinion of the participants but all right 
At least for me - I don't know about the other users on here.
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