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Post by LittleDemon on Oct 13, 2012 11:54:59 GMT 1
Woke up went down stairs my mom crying she had a fight with my dad and than she sayed i am adopted so that is so sucks my parent arent my Biologic parents they said the got me from a orphanage in Latvia so i am not Dutch but Latvian i am really mad at my parents that they didn't tell me i was born in Riga and i was named and my name isn't my birthname i got from my mother is was named Nicolai and not Max so i am really unhappy today don't now how this will effect my life
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Post by Deleted on Oct 13, 2012 12:00:59 GMT 1
Woow, that's some crazy stuff man, there's no words for me to describe how you must be feeling right now  On a lighter note, at least I'm not the only  Latvian here ;D |
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Post by LittleDemon on Oct 13, 2012 12:04:59 GMT 1
^ I know i can't stop wondering what my life would if i would grow up in  Latvia everything is so strange at the moment i can't even look at my ''Parents'' and i can't contact my Bio Parents untill i am 18 years |
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Post by Domantas on Oct 13, 2012 12:11:44 GMT 1
WOW, that is so... crazy! I would never want to know that I'm adopted or something  |
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Post by Dimitris on Oct 13, 2012 12:31:05 GMT 1
That's so ... I can't describe it. I only knew this from TV  |
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Post by Liev on Oct 13, 2012 12:35:00 GMT 1
Woke up went down stairs my mom crying she had a fight with my dad and than she sayed i am adopted so that is so sucks my parent arent my Biologic parents they said the got me from a orphanage in Latvia so i am not Dutch but Latvian i am really mad at my parents that they didn't tell me i was born in Riga and i was named and my name isn't my birthname i got from my mother is was named Nicolai and not Max so i am really unhappy today don't now how this will effect my life Hey Max, first of all, I am in no position at all to give you any advice, but I just can't resist 'cause I wanted to help. When I was a kid, I did wonder if I was an adopted kid too since I don't have a picture or video of the time I came out of my mother's womb (or at least the time she was carrying me after giving birth) at the hospital while my sister has. And out of my curiosity, I did wonder how it felt like if one day my parents break that news in front of me, I did prepare for what I'm going to say to them, but it never came because I was proven to be legitimate. Now, going to your situation, I'm sorry to hear that. I know your angry and you're thinkin' of never forgiving your parents for not telling you about it earlier or so but at the moment, stop, relax and just breathe. Okay so you just found out that you're Latvian, you were adopted and your name shouldn't be what your name is right now. But you don't know how lucky you are to find out about it as early as now. I assume that your living in an average (or above average) lifestyle, financially and emotionally speaking and I also assume that your parents gave you all that you'll be ever needing for your own life, like education, foods, shelter and the best of all, a family, where you belong. A lot of kids grow in the orphanage who never experienced the tender loving care of a mum or dad, a lot of them can't afford to be educated and a lot of them end up in the wrong road but instead you've been adopted. Everything has a purpose in life and your parents' adoption of you has a purpose. For now, you won't be thinking of all of these but by the time you mature, you'll be thankful that you had a family to lean on, to share problems with, to give you the love and care that no other person can give you and a family who always got your back and that's what matters most. I'm sorry if I said all of this but I just wanted to help and I hope I did help you one way or another.  Good day!  |
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Post by Liev on Oct 13, 2012 12:53:38 GMT 1
Hope you feel better sooner than soon. |
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Post by LittleDemon on Oct 13, 2012 13:04:17 GMT 1
Woke up went down stairs my mom crying she had a fight with my dad and than she sayed i am adopted so that is so sucks my parent arent my Biologic parents they said the got me from a orphanage in Latvia so i am not Dutch but Latvian i am really mad at my parents that they didn't tell me i was born in Riga and i was named and my name isn't my birthname i got from my mother is was named Nicolai and not Max so i am really unhappy today don't now how this will effect my life Hey Max, first of all, I am in no position at all to give you any advice, but I just can't resist 'cause I wanted to help. When I was a kid, I did wonder if I was an adopted kid too since I don't have a picture or video of the time I came out of my mother's womb (or at least the time she was carrying me after giving birth) at the hospital while my sister has. And out of my curiosity, I did wonder how it felt like if one day my parents break that news in front of me, I did prepare for what I'm going to say to them, but it never came because I was proven to be legitimate. Now, going to your situation, I'm sorry to hear that. I know your angry and you're thinkin' of never forgiving your parents for not telling you about it earlier or so but at the moment, stop, relax and just breathe. Okay so you just found out that you're Latvian, you were adopted and your name shouldn't be what your name is right now. But you don't know how lucky you are to find out about it as early as now. I assume that your living in an average (or above average) lifestyle, financially and emotionally speaking and I also assume that your parents gave you all that you'll be ever needing for your own life, like education, foods, shelter and the best of all, a family, where you belong. A lot of kids grow in the orphanage who never experienced the tender loving care of a mum or dad, a lot of them can't afford to be educated and a lot of them end up in the wrong road but instead you've been adopted. Everything has a purpose in life and your parents' adoption of you has a purpose. For now, you won't be thinking of all of these but by the time you mature, you'll be thankful that you had a family to lean on, to share problems with, to give you the love and care that no other person can give you and a family who always got your back and that's what matters most. I'm sorry if I said all of this but I just wanted to help and I hope I did help you one way or another. Good day! I know i will Forgive them but it will take time but now i don't know what to think Thanks for the for pointing it out for me i am lucky that i grow up here in The Netherlands and al the love they give me but still i can't help wondering why i was put in a Orhanage in the first place and my parents don't know either they had a letter with just my name and when i was born and the first name of my mother and thats it no foto's ore anything i am really in conflict with my self and my parents  |
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Post by Liev on Oct 13, 2012 13:11:56 GMT 1
Yes, I understand. Don't worry, in due time, everything will finally be clear. |
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Post by LittleDemon on Oct 13, 2012 13:13:21 GMT 1
^ Lets hope so
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