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Post by Deleted on Oct 1, 2014 20:58:03 GMT 1
Well at the very very least I'm not the worst person here anymore That might seem a bit self-important, but this revelation really lifted a weight off of my back.
This is because I've definitely said worse things to people (not death threats, but I was a lot more persistent), and I thought that some people would think it was me. It's partly why I've kept a low profile lately. After the horrible things I said to people from 2011 to 2013, I've just about managed to blend in again. I hope Tom will be able to do the same. |
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Post by Julian on Oct 1, 2014 20:58:50 GMT 1
This was a shock, didn't expect that Tom could make things like this  Ok, I can understand the thing between him and Blandine, but the messages with Melanie are just to much. They are disgusting. If he would have apologized to Blandine without sending those messages to Melanie, it wouldn't be a big deal for me, I wouldn't be angry because of his words. But the thing with Melanie is just to high for me, really hate people who say things like this.   |
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Post by nick on Oct 1, 2014 20:59:06 GMT 1
(I have very little idea of what I'm talking about, so please excuse any stupid mistakes) Well this is a lovely situation. It seems like everyone involved could use a little time to cool off. Hopefully this will lead to a more aware forum where everyone is at least a little knowledgable about cyberbulling and what's okay and not okay. However, why were these private messages posted? That just seems way too intrusive and won't have any benefit whatsoever, along with publicly humiliating one of the participants. Anyway, hopefully this'll fade into the past quickly and everyone involved can return to a healthier forum. They're used as proofs, which is different from humiliating somebody  They're showing the truth and how things really went. But are proofs really that important? Everyone's already been hurt & two people left; that's evidence enough to me. Well, as I said, I don't know the people or the situation as well as others on here do. Again, hopefully the community can use this incident as an opportunity to learn about cyberbullying and how to avoid it. |
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Post by kev on Oct 1, 2014 21:00:36 GMT 1
OMFG o.O Never expected this Anyway I would be angry if someone say that to me  |
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Post by nick on Oct 1, 2014 21:01:22 GMT 1
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Post by Rick on Oct 1, 2014 21:02:15 GMT 1
Just another thing. The truth is the truth, but just try to not judge Tom. He will get the punishment as said, which will be enough.
Otherwise it might just turn into cyberbullying on him.
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Post by Rick on Oct 1, 2014 21:03:33 GMT 1
They're used as proofs, which is different from humiliating somebody They're showing the truth and how things really went. But are proofs really that important? Everyone's already been hurt & two people left; that's evidence enough to me. Well, as I said, I don't know the people or the situation as well as others on here do. Again, hopefully the community can use this incident as an opportunity to learn about cyberbullying and how to avoid it. They are because it wasn't clear who really insulted who until that point |
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Post by Franck on Oct 1, 2014 21:04:55 GMT 1
Just another thing. The truth is the truth, but just try to not judge Tom. He will get the punishment as said, which will be enough. Otherwise it might just turn into cyberbullying on him. I totally agree with that! |
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Post by Franck on Oct 1, 2014 21:06:56 GMT 1
They're used as proofs, which is different from humiliating somebody They're showing the truth and how things really went. But are proofs really that important? Everyone's already been hurt & two people left; that's evidence enough to me. Well, as I said, I don't know the people or the situation as well as others on here do. Again, hopefully the community can use this incident as an opportunity to learn about cyberbullying and how to avoid it. If you read carefully the conversation I had with him, there is no point where I bully or humiliate him. What I did was discussing and trying to understand. When I had enough informations, I left him! |
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Post by myloxyloto on Oct 1, 2014 21:07:33 GMT 1
I knew something was wrong with this guy since the day he came to the forums he started stalking me on many threads being ironic about my sexuality and in conclusion hating me just because I was a member. I had some fights with him but I understood then that stupid ppl should not waste my time so I just ignored him. I'm glad I'm proven for another time here right,because I can recall many people saying I was over reacting about some people here. Well you know just because we all talk about ESC or whatever it doesn't mean we're all normal. Some people have psychological problems and from what I can remember Tom doesn't like his class and I think they're bullying him. So that whole bullying hurts him and he's cyber bullying in order to express his feelings. I know it sounds crazy but that's the truth,I was looking at a few things on the internet. Oh,and about the other issue where he was saying about girls and sex 1.Saying that he doesn't accept being tolerated [lol where was he tolarated?] by other girls sounds SO sexist. I guess what we can expect from him 2.I'm 16 and I lost my virginity at 15. Does that make me a slut or whatever? I wanted it and I enjoyed it. #sorrynotsorry Just because he can't find a gf [which is expected by his lovely behavour] it doesn't mean other ppl don't go on with their relationships  and in the end who are you to judge when she must lose her virginity lol 3. You CAN NOT have feelings for someone you have never been in touch. You can see him/her in cam ofc but that's not enough. So all those feelings are not really feelings,just a quick enthusiasm. I'm saying this cuz I had a same experience one day and I understood I was so dumb Overall: I'm not really surprised,since I knew his character lovely cyber behavour=lovely general behavour=caused by school bullying=why?=because students either understood his character or they find him quite desperate I sound harsh but you all know that when I wanna say something,I have no regrets so #sorrynotsorryx2 |
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