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Post by Deleted on Jul 18, 2015 23:48:44 GMT 1
" I am not like a girl who is in a male body" is a transsexual. That has nothing to do with being homosexual, and I do not see this as a stereotype either. There are cases where transsexual people remain to feel attracted to their now own gender. So they turned (for example) from a heterosexual man to a lesbian woman. By this I mean someone acting like a girl, hmm.. how to put it...as if he was a member of the Army of Skanks in Mean Girls, BUT has no intention of going transgender... xkbvdxkjbijibdfi i wanna be that omg |
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Post by Julian on Jul 25, 2015 1:35:44 GMT 1
My stepfather imitates more and more gay behaviour, like stereotyped voice or something like this. Today (for example) I used a fan (it's not what you think, the thing is really called "fan" in English  ) in a shop because it was too hot and then my stepfather called me a f-word. Later, in a restaurant there was another man with his girlfriend who used the menu as fan (the air thing) and then my stepfather told me, that there's another f-word. I'm not offended because I know that he's joking, I mean, he has gay friends and is tolerant, but behaviour like this doesn't really help my confidence and idk how to react on that ._. Most of the time I just ignore it |
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Post by Hyunzales on Jul 25, 2015 3:01:25 GMT 1
My stepfather imitates more and more gay behaviour, like stereotyped voice or something like this. Today (for example) I used a fan (it's not what you think, the thing is really called "fan" in English ) in a shop because it was too hot and then my stepfather called me a f-word. Later, in a restaurant there was another man with his girlfriend who used the menu as fan (the air thing) and then my stepfather told me, that there's another f-word. I'm not offended because I know that he's joking, I mean, he has gay friends and is tolerant, but behaviour like this doesn't really help my confidence and idk how to react on that ._. Most of the time I just ignore it Yep, ignore it, you can't do anything else. I am in a shitter situation my BFF's boyfriend when drunk goes all gay and jokes stuff like "You want to give me a head hmm?" or calls me kitten or babe... All I do is ignore him or joke around too... Tho that part went really bad..when I joked around, they thought I ain't joking around..and I felt like a slut... |
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Post by OMAROSA on Jul 25, 2015 13:29:06 GMT 1
My stepfather imitates more and more gay behaviour, like stereotyped voice or something like this. Today (for example) I used a fan (it's not what you think, the thing is really called "fan" in English ) in a shop because it was too hot and then my stepfather called me a f-word. Later, in a restaurant there was another man with his girlfriend who used the menu as fan (the air thing) and then my stepfather told me, that there's another f-word. I'm not offended because I know that he's joking, I mean, he has gay friends and is tolerant, but behaviour like this doesn't really help my confidence and idk how to react on that ._. Most of the time I just ignore it Does the German word for "f-word" have the same negative connotations as in English? If you're uncomfortable with it, then you should let him know about it at least. You're born the way you are, and if he's not helping your confidence about who you are, then it might be good to just mention that it doesn't help your confidence, especially if he's saying it over something as trivial as fanning yourself. Is he like that with his other gay friends? |
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Post by Julian on Jul 25, 2015 20:20:34 GMT 1
My stepfather imitates more and more gay behaviour, like stereotyped voice or something like this. Today (for example) I used a fan (it's not what you think, the thing is really called "fan" in English ) in a shop because it was too hot and then my stepfather called me a f-word. Later, in a restaurant there was another man with his girlfriend who used the menu as fan (the air thing) and then my stepfather told me, that there's another f-word. I'm not offended because I know that he's joking, I mean, he has gay friends and is tolerant, but behaviour like this doesn't really help my confidence and idk how to react on that ._. Most of the time I just ignore it Does the German word for "f-word" have the same negative connotations as in English? If you're uncomfortable with it, then you should let him know about it at least. You're born the way you are, and if he's not helping your confidence about who you are, then it might be good to just mention that it doesn't help your confidence, especially if he's saying it over something as trivial as fanning yourself. Is he like that with his other gay friends? He doesn't know that I'm gay, I don't think he would say that if he knew it  but I don't want to tell him now >_> |
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Post by Callum on Jul 28, 2015 19:32:47 GMT 1
lol that first try was a fail ^
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Post by ha11d0r99 on Aug 5, 2015 18:00:27 GMT 1
I would say that I'm asexual, but also heterosexual, I'm attracted to girls but not sexually, no one knows because I don't know who I should tell, I know I will tell at some point, especially because I know of people who think I'm gay, so I'll have to correct them soon, just a question of who to tell.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 5, 2015 23:39:04 GMT 1
I would say that I'm asexual, but also heterosexual, I'm attracted to girls but not sexually, no one knows because I don't know who I should tell, I know I will tell at some point, especially because I know of people who think I'm gay, so I'll have to correct them soon, just a question of who to tell. That's pretty often a misconception.  Society says that if you are not attracted to girls physically, you're automatically gay - which is complete nonsense. |
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Post by ha11d0r99 on Aug 6, 2015 2:44:09 GMT 1
I would say that I'm asexual, but also heterosexual, I'm attracted to girls but not sexually, no one knows because I don't know who I should tell, I know I will tell at some point, especially because I know of people who think I'm gay, so I'll have to correct them soon, just a question of who to tell. That's pretty often a misconception. Society says that if you are not attracted to girls physically, you're automatically gay - which is complete nonsense. It's awful, I don't know for sure, but with minor hints I think even family members suspect that I'm gay, I think so because my gay uncle has numerous times told me that if I need any advice on anything, I could come to him. Of course this could just be a nice gesture, but it seems odd that it is said so many times... |
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