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My statement about the situation:

I think both sides are "guilty".

Blandine started the whole "kill" thing and posted Tom's "kill-sentence" though she wrote sth like that first.

Tom will be forever single with his reactions, he can't say that someone is stupid or a slut without knowing this person in real life. On the internet we can post everything but noone can know if it's true or not.
Tom can't have an influence on Blandine's life, she can do whatever she wants and Tom shouldn't mind.
He can't say that all girls from France are stupid or sth like that. He thinks that every girl at this age is like a slut in his eyes. This is totally wrong, he speaks too generally. Tom tried to act like an adult though he acted like a child with these reactions.

Tom, you can never get a girlfriend by acting like this, you can't say that every single sister of an older girl is like that. You just can't know. We didn't know that you have these sides in you, you seemed to be a nice person but as I said, people can post everything they want but we never won't know if they are true or not..

Fact: I am the only guy straight here.

First of all I'm really busy (it isn't an excuse) since upcoming Friday is an off day in The Netherlands (I already expect people to not believe it so check out the article here ). My home town is a neighbour of this city so we're free from school as well and then I'll go to somewhere where I don't have internet. And next week my Australian family is coming to here so I was busy with the preparations and of course I prefer to be with them then here.

I was making a huge post to admit some days after it happened but when I got to know more users knew about it I was pretty sure Blandine only wanted me to get in an annoying position.



First point: there's a long story behind it I guess.
Second point: LOL! It's not weird I didn't want to share it with others if you see 75 % of the users are mad about it even if they don't know all my points from her post.
Third point: Why would I apologize to her sister? She was the first one who would kill me if I lived in France. My reaction about the car was understandable, she was the first one who started about killing if you didn't know yet.
Fourth point: It's not weird either I lost my respect for France and its people after 3 people from there were heavily insulting me (well ok 2 people; I've still my doubts about what Blandine really wanted to happen).

I could've decided to tell the admins/only one admin (I was planning that to do with Rick) but I realized the admins mostly take the sides of the people who pretend to be treated wrong so I lost my motivation I think haha.

I've been talking to fabbi about it for weeks (he's the only one here I can trust) but we didn't really know where to start and where the mistakes were located. Anyway I remember I made a summary in the PM I've with him and there I added my comments about the situation with Blandine and Melanie.

About Franck and his annoying message... I'm still sure he only did this because he supported blindly Blandine's side. What should I add more to this part? I told him I didn't like the fact he was doing this because he was a soldier of Blandine (I remember I used the word "dick" ) and then he started to insult me - maybe even more then I insulted Melanie?

(I don't know if these posts are already added in Rick's summary of screenshots )



The only thing I would like to apologize are the things I said about Jan. I know those where wrong and nonsense and I don't expect any understanding from him for this in the upcoming few years; I would do exactly the same.

I'm happy there are some users ( Alex and fabbi for example, but probably some more - respect guys!) who are supporting me even if some of them don't know my part of the situation yet. It seems that they feel that Blandine wanted me to get in this situation, what I strongly feel as well. Shame on the users who take blindly Blandine's side.

And I don't want to get banned. The 50 % punishment is OK as it seems you don't want to believe/know/whatever my side of the story, so I'm not really into it to explain everything in detail as well. But one of my hobbies is participating in online song contests and most of them I'm participating are in this forums and it would be unhandly if I couldn't give the hosts my votes anymore.

And last but not least... it's hilarious how Chris thinks I'm against his sexuality or so. It's true I never liked him but that's because of his own personality if he really wants to know (I guess he already knew though ) - I never judge anyone on his sexuality. The fact I'm heterosexual doesn't mean I would hate everyone who has another sexuality or any other person who doesn't have the same gender as me. It's right I've my own ideas about the girls in my country - it's not needed to mention that I'll never get a girlfriend because that's something I already know since 2011.

I think my comment was mainly about people like you who think they're right to take the other side even if they don't have the patience to read an... internet post? And instead of reading the post imagining random insults of course.