Coming Out

I'd love to have some more male friends, I don't want to be the stereo type who just has girls as friends

I just came out to one of my friends and it's ok for him
But I already expected this, as he is very tolerant and is a huge supporter of fairness for everybody

Nice move you plan! But be carefull,you will meet at least 1 "friend" where he/she will absolutely unfriend you when you'll tell you're gay. They may actually spread rumors about you and your sexuality and even only Godplay know what else,but you shouldn't be hurt and if someone random asks you just answer: why do you care,you wanna date me or something?

After my past two weeks, I think I can help you out. First, so proud of you to make this decision. It's so hard, but it'll end up being totally worth all the stress and fear. So you've already come out to three people, which is great, even if they all haven't been totally supportive. However, there's a red flag that popped up to me immediately.
If you are not sure about this, it's better to just not say anything. Especially since you're so young (if I'm wrong, sorry, I just assume everyone here, except like three people, is younger than me), it might be smarter to see how things turn out later before sticking a big label on yourself.

I know this from experience, because last week, I wrote a huge thing about me coming out and put it on FB and sent it to all my friends (I hate face-to-face convos ). But later, I realized that I'd totally fucked up because I had only felt like I would fall in love with girls. In fact, I have my first crush on a girl, but instead of recognizing that that was important, I pressed on and gave myself a label that wasn't right.

Now I encountered nothing but support, even when I had to say "Oh yeah, that's not right." And I came out in the most public way possible. Since you only told three people, I'd say don't tell anyone else and wait to label yourself. Or just don't label yourself at all. I've decided that it's best for me to avoid them, but if someone demands a label, I'll probably say straight (but that's just b/c I'm between asexual and homosexual. Yeah, it's complicated ).

However, if you're really sure and you want to come out to your parents or someone that you're afraid of seeing their reaction, practice writing it out beforehand. Write a diary entry or something that you don't have to share with anyone. Then, maybe write them a note or something and leave it to them to find and think about. Also, make yourself accessible for questions and help them understand.

P.S. If you want to talk more, just PM me. I'm almost always here.